It’s not the strength of a man that determines his worth. It’s the strength of his character. Henry Jamison
I had a listen to the podcasts on the Charisma Arts website and I must say I’m very impressed with the techniques the guys are using.
I agree that charisma is a required attribute for successfully picking up women. However Charisma is a very hard quality to both teach and even define. I like their approach which is to give techniques for increasing chances with girls, and letting the charisma aspect develop over time.
Some of the techniques they discuss are listed below.
- Kino
- Light touches preferably to the upper arm area that are non-intrusive, but build a connection, a physical rapport.
- SOI - Statement of Intent
- A statement dropped into your interaction that shows you’re not just interacting as a friend but that you’re willing to escalate to a more sexual relationship.
- In your head
- A phrase used to convey the feeling that you are thinking too much about your interaction and that you are not totally relaxed and in the flow.
- Not Entertaining
- The concept that you are not there to perform but to allow her to entertain you.
- Relating
- Whilst on a subject you both find interesting you do a lot of listening and agreeing with her thoughts and opinions.
- Isolating
- Taking her away from her friends so that she is not distracted, and she is committed to continuing the interaction one on one.
- Qualification
- Not about checking whether she has a boyfriend/husband but taking her fallacies about what she looks for and negating them.
- Double Take
- Catching a girls eye as if you recognise her then moving away, apparently works as a mini ice breaker.
A list of the podcasts is included below. Definitely worth a listen.
