Adapted from a posting on fast seduction.
1) You Cannot Interact Positively in a Negative State of Mind
You have two states of mind, positive and negative. A positive state of mind will help you do better in life; positive traits include confidence, energy, joyfulness, friendliness and excitement. A negative state of mind will hinder aspects of your life. Negative traits include pessimism, nervousness, shyness, aggression and intimidation.
Your seduction effectiveness decreases with a negative state of mind. To get into a positive state, surround yourself with positive things.
- Listen to upbeat music or music that makes you feel good. A favourite of mine is MTV Dance, dance music videos always seem to feature great looking women as a bonus.
- Hang around confident, funny and charming people.
- Don’t watch the news, it’s depressing. If anything really important happens in the world you’ll eventually find out.
- Don’t watch soap operas; mildly depressing and a waste of your time.
- Smile - as often as you can.
There are a number of ways to manage negative state, including numbing your mind to those factors. One of the biggest negative factors in seduction is fear of rejection. Seduction is a numbers game, only through 10’s of approaches will you develop a killer technique and lose the fear.
2) You Cannot Pickup Unless You Are Alpha
The average man will have an average approach to women. Being Alpha means standing out from the crowd, some people have it naturally, others can learn. Alpha maleness is not about aggression or dominance.
a. Look and feel your best
Think about your grooming, the clothes you wear and your fitness. You have to at least look like the Alpha male. Look at what people wear and get feedback. Consider re-stocking your whole wardrobe.
b. Never Supplicate
Be a lively character in your seduction not a submissive one.
- Never do anything on her terms, add one of your own.
- Never ask - tell or do.
- Never dwell on negative emotions.
- Never argue.
- Never linger or appear too eager.
- Never brag or claim characteristics - show it to her through your actions.
- Tease/make fun of her.
- Play childish games with her.
3) You cannot seduce somebody who does not want to be seduced.
Within milliseconds of meeting you a girl has made an assessment as to how attractive she finds you. We do it all the time to women, it’s only fair. After this initial assessment you may get some more time with her to either increase or decrease your worth. If she finds you unattractive and you can’t increase your worth with your technique, you are doomed. Move on.
4) You Chase That Which Avoids You, And Avoid That Which Chases You
You subconsciously make it look like she is the one chasing you, then you capitalize when she starts to show the chasing behavior.
Chasing behavior
- Approaching Women
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- This one is difficult, but you have to make your approach was actually initiated by her. Move close to her line of vision, do something to raise attention, catch her eye turn towards her and open.
- Asking Questions About Them
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- What do you do ? Where do you live ? These are average questions, rather make statements about yourself that lead to questions from her. Make them prove themselves to you.
- Supplicating To Her
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- Don’t buy her a drink if she asks.
- Following Her
- This is obviously chasing behavior. Rather you should be taking her by the hand and isolating her.
- Showing Too Much Interest
- You lower your value to her if you are too easy.
5) You Resist That which Is Artificial, And Accept That which Is Natural
You must appear spontaneous and un-rehearsed. If she detects you are reading from a script you are dumped and rightly so. It’s ok to have some stories about yourself and perhaps a funny chat up line or two. But, most of your interaction is going to have to be off the top of your head. At some stage you’re going to have to be yourself, a very positive, charismatic version of yourself.
