The phrase alpha male is banded around a lot on seduction forums, the theory is that if you are the alpha male in a room then you’re going to get all the attention and subsequently all the action.
If you watch animal shows on PBS or Discovery Channel, many species have a dominant male who has sex with all the females in the group.NightLight9, ASF
Often it seems like you know guys who are always getting laid and other guys never get laid. You’ll even see women talking to/hanging out/being friends with the average guy, but then sleep with some other guy (even if he is a jerk, sleeps around and doesn’t respect them). The guy who gets laid is playing the role of the alpha male, while the other guys are submissive males.Anonymous
He takes control of a situation with authority. He knows he’s fun to be with because he is always having a good time and therefore he _is_ fun to be with. He knows that if he is in a group of guys and a group of girls, he will be the one the girls choose to be with, and by having this to be the expected outcome, it is a self fulfilling prophecy.Anonymous
In a night club you’ll see a lot of dominant males, the reality is in a crowded situation you’re unlikely to make the kind of impact that will grab the attention of all the girls. However, I still think that the concept of the Alpha Male is important in your interaction with women, in other words your manner should be confident so that she feels she is with an alpha male, even if you are not the alpha male in that situation.
Examples of Alpha Male characteristics would be :-
- Approaching women - submissive males don’t approach women.
- Being the funniest person in a group, having the confidence to hold peoples attention.
- Approaching a group of women and introducing your friends - Alpha males don’t mind competition
But inherently some people are 6ft tall and great looking, there’s not much you can do about that. A friend of mine was once on a photo shoot for a mens fashion magazine. He went clubbing with the male models after work, he said when these guys walked into the club every girl stopped what she was doing and drooled.
