1. Make your profile stand out.

Filling in a profile is personal marketing. Communicate a high value image of yourself, tell the truth, but make it sound really great. Most profiles ask the same sorts of questions i.e. hobbies, music, profession etc. For music I wouldn’t list my favourite bands, instead I might say.

I love listening to new music, going to concerts and most of all singing in the shower.

OK, it’s not the best line ever, but I was able to get across that I’m open to new things, I like going out and that I have a sense of humour.

You usually get an open field to describe yourself, write something here but keep it short and too the point. Be general and try to cover the following points, you’re confident, bright, funny, sexy and truthful !

Sometimes you’ re asked about the type of girl you’re looking for. Resist the temptation to write 32FF 18.y.o. Gymnast with insatiable sexual appetite., and instead go for something more general. Keep your profile on a positive track and don’t criticise yourself.

2. Always Add Photos

Profiles with photos get the most traffic, fact!. The photos are the first thing she’ll look at so you get a few milliseconds to raise your value. High value is obtained with the following types of photos.

  • A Group Shot - You with a few friends male and female all laughing. This shows her that people want to be with you i.e. social proof.
  • Sport - An activity photo, show’s you’re dynamic and that you look after yourself.
  • Luxury - If you have a nice car/flat/boat or have been on a nice holiday, upload the photo. You should be the main focus of the photo and the luxury item just happens to be there.
  • Avoid - Naked shots, bad photos, small photos, animals, cartoon characters, school photos and photos that are not you.

3. Some Elements of Your Profile Should be Vague

Don’t list your religion, drinking habits, desire to have children or living status as these may filter you out of her search.

4.Escalate to chat ASAP

This is especially true for networking sites, try to get her instant messenger address as soon as you can. Most sites have a chat facility but they’re all shit, also a lot of girls may visit a site infrequently but use MSN Chat every day. Get on her buddy list and you’ll get a much higher probability of talking to her again.

5. MSN/YAHOO Chat

Make sure you’re chat software is the latest version and that you’re registered with Yahoo and MSN. Have your photos ready on your PC, if you make contact with a girl two weeks down the line it’s customary to swap photos so you can remember each other.